Gatherings

went to bugis to celebrate weiliat's bday today.. had dinner at the 辣妹子重庆老火锅王 haha eat till damn shiok..

for me, such gatherings are always fun and much looked forward to.. because it's a time to catch up with old pals, find out how everyone's doing and reminisc the "good old days" haha.. laughing with each other, laughing at each other.. its a great feeling.

ironically midway through the meal i received an sms from an old fren.. and it brought a tiny tinge of sadness within me.

we used to be such close frens.

the days where we played bball after school everyday, rain or shine.

the days where we went to kallang leisure park for ice-skating, bowling and arcade.

even after we left secondary school, we still met up often to celebrate the gang's bday.

and not forgetting the occasional chalets, no matter how boring they seemed.

so wat happened? u might ask.

it was u, who failed to turn up for the occasional gatherings to celebrate bdays. not even for a couple of hours.

it was u, who kept giving the same excuses. seminars. meetings. busy etc.

it was u, who always had to leave early to return to office even during e rare times when u did come.

worse still, we gave u 2 weeks advance notice.

worse still, we gave u plenty of chances. but the same shit keeps happening.

so well, u might blame us.

for not replying ur msges.

for not asking u out anymore.

for being cold towards u.

u took us for granted. we had enuff of it.

let this be a lesson learnt. dun ever take ur frens for granted =)